Be the girl who... can be taken care of

Be the girl who can be taken care of.  The girl who has the strength and independence to stand on her own - to take care of herself - to be so bold to move halfway around the world and start a new life on her own - be that girl but still find a way to be taken care of.  To let go, relinquish control and go along for the ride even when the roller coaster moves more like the ferris wheel - slower than expected, slower than you want.  Trust that it will still move.  It always does.

Be the girl who stands to the side (sometimes) and lets the boy guide her - make decisions, plan dates.  The girl that ultimately gets exactly what she wants when she stops trying so hard to control the outcome.  To do it on her own.  Be the girl who realizes that everything happens as it should but time flows different for everyone.  The girl who sees that though society has progressed it's still in a boys nature to provide - a primal need to take care of the home - whatever the circumstances.  Whatever your needs.  His.  Be the girl who can be taken care of.